3 Reasons 'Thoughts and Prayers' Is Criticized Offering "thoughts and prayers" as condolences is often criticized for various reasons: 1. When in the process of grieving, it can be very hard for people to remember to do things to take care of themselves. I didnt try to sugarcoat it saying itll get better it never does and it wont till you yourself dies. Sometimes Ive found it to be appropriate and other times Ive wanted something else. You can include a link to this post in your posts and comments by including the text. On Compassion and forgiveness sorry if you disagree. Non-religious equivalent expression for "Pray for [Country X]" after a I am loving hearing all the stories his co-workers and friends are sharing. Sometimes that means using common phrases but when I can Ive tried to say something different and more personal. Some people would grimace at the thought of a hug, so if your friend is one of those people skip ahead! Gina just happened to read your comment. I have found peace by abandoning faith in any god. Then say nothing. I am the sunlight on ripened grain. It let me know that I wasnt alone in loving him, it gave me another piece of him that I didnt have before, and it helps me to remember his life instead of just his death. They may want to go soon after their loss as a distraction, or they may want to wait until their back to everyday life and use it as a reset. You who say there is nothing to say when a child dies are so right. Both of the following comments are rather insensitive to someone who has lost a child. I feel that this is so meaningful because its beyond anything a human can do, something miraculous! Sending positive vibes sending well wishes- sending love & light. It is viewed as an excuse for action. All you have to do is find a traditional prayer that you enjoy overall. Im going to have my mom speak to someone today actually, to talk and listen to how shes emotionally doing without my Dad. Hearing the impact their loved one had on others can be a real gift. A: Any variation on "I'm so sorry to hear about this, and I'm here for you if you need anything" or "Call me if you need to talk" should work. We dont ask what we can do, we just show up. It will let them know that you are there for them and in it with them. I have taken meals / pie to someone just to help out.

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